In the age of millennial dating, #ghosting a potential bae has become quite a common and frustrating experience. People who have been ghosted often reflect and try to figure out why their boo never text back.

Well one college student has taken the proactive route by being determined to find out what actually might have been the issue. So was it her? Well Katie Miller turned to her exes to find out.


Miller, a 21-year-old student at #GeorgetownUniversity, was inspired to create a #Google questionnaire after she was ghosted “yet again” by a guy she was casually dating, @nypost reports. The clever “exit survey” was created for her exes so that she can learn from her dating mistakes.

“I wanted to see if I could prevent that, and I wanted to ask why it happened without initiating a conversation,” Miller told @Insider.


Her friend Abby Govindan, also a 21-year-old college student and comedian, shared Miller’s survey on Twitter this past week, and her post quickly went viral.

“There’s this girl I know who sends an exit survey to every guy she casually AND seriously dates,” Govindan wrote in a tweet, which now has more than 20,000 likes.


Miller’s questions asked her past lovers for direct feedback, including “What is wrong with Katie?,” “What is wrong with you?” and if they would refer her to other guys. Miller also asked if they’d still like to remain on her mailing list if “another opportunity opens up.”

“Not every guy has responded, and the ones who have are very nice,” Miller said.


So, #Roommates, what y’all think? Would you ask your exes why it didn’t work out? Let us know!

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