If you keep up with the Kardashians, then you know we were first introduced to #ScottDisick and #KourtneyKardashian’s relationship when the show first aired. The two were together for over 9 years, and have three adorable children together. 8-year-old Mason, 6-year-old Penelope, and 3-year-old Reign.

Kourtney and Scott broke up after having some up and downs, and on and offs of their own, and both proceeded to seeing other people. Scott specifically started dating #LionelRichie’s daughter, #SofiaRichie, and they’ve been rocking for a cool minute now. If y’all remember, there was a moment in one of the newer #KUWTK episodes where Kourt low-key went off on Scott for bringing Sofia around the kids without telling her. In Scott’s defense, he said they agreed to have introductions at the beginning of the new year. 

Fast forward to a year into Scott and Sofia’s relationship, the two reportedly met up with Kourtney for a sit down dinner for the first time.  Kourtney “doesn’t necessarily care to get to know Sofia better, but she feels she needs to because of the kids,” a source reportedly tells PEOPLE, adding:

“Sofia spends time with Kourtney’s kids, so Kourtney wants to make sure they are all on the same page,” says the source. “Scott and Sofia tend to get into arguments. Kourtney wants to make sure the kids are in a positive environment when they are at Scott’s house. She is setting up rules for how things needs to be when the kids are with Scott.”

Kourtney is said to have arrived and left separately while Scott and Sofia arrived and left together. The dinner was reportedly “tense” and “looked more like a business dinner.”

Sofia has been spending a lot of time with the kids as we’ve seen in their photos before, however, it’s never Gucci Gucci until you’re good with the mom too.

Sofia seems to be a good influence on Scott as he’s not out here wildin’ like he used to anymore, so hopefully everything works out for all parties involved!