If you had the chance to Instagram creep lately on Memphitz page, you could probably draw the conclusion that he is a desperate attention seeker. A lot of social media activity also raised eyebrows about his marriage to Toya, we recently posted a Instagram pic of Memphitz in bed with a bunch of half naked girls captioning the picture “new hobbies”.
Well Toya has finally broken her silence and has indeed confirmed that she and the former music producer are separated.
In an interview with Necole Bitchie, Toya opens up about the fact that Memphitz, who she met at T-pain’s album release party a project that Memphitz had worked on, isn’t the same casanova who swept her off her feet when she first met him eight years ago.
He just has a good heart. Hes a genuine person, hes very respectful. And its crazy that I say these things because the person that he portrays to be on Instagram these last few months is not really who he is. Thats a part of the crazy sh*t that theyve turned him into. Im like- who are you? I dont even know you.”
She also talks about how her four year marriage began to fail after the allegations of him beating his ex, K Michelle, surfaced. She describes him having a mental break down and having to see a psychiatristas well as acting out on social mediato deal with being blackballed in the industry and thebacklash from haters.
It was more so pray for our situation and what hes going through. The whole situation has turned him into- you know- acting like the person you see on social media and thats really not him. Its bigger than me and all this other stuff that theyre thinking. Its something that hes going through- something this whole lawsuit and defaming his character- it has turned him into this person. That is posting the cowboy pics, saying dumb stuff The Joker, and this and this and that, Im like Who the hell are you? the person I met would never do nothing like that. Like, the old Mickey- like, who are you?
Its turning him into someone else. I guess hes finally reaching his breaking point and I guess thats his way of reacting and expressing himself now. Because I dont even understand it. Thats why I pray everyday.
I try to put myself in his shoes. Im with you, you know, he even do his stuff with the counselor where he talks to people about the whole situation. Its a lot, its deep. Its real deep.
Seems like she is sticking to her vows of “throw thick and thin, for better orforworse” as she talks about praying for Memphitz and fighting to keep her marriage together but she remains unclear on what the future holds for her marriage.
Hes slowly coming back around. It looks like hes trying to get his sh*t together or whatever.
Some people, I just feel like whats meant to be is meant to me. And if were mean to be just friends, then thats just what it is. I still want whats best for him regardless.
I dont doubt that he loves me. Hes one of these guys- I dont think he can handle being in my shadow, if that makes sense. Hes used to having [and] doing his own[thing]. And to be honest with you, Mickey and I are two different people. Im like the more- I watch, I care about my image. And I care about the things I do. And some things, Im very classy with stuff. Like I dont just throw stuff out there and do anything.
Him on the other hand, hes not me. Hes not the perfect, America sweetheart guy. Hes rough around the edges. Hes risky. Hell do anything and thats the one thing that we struggle with is that were two different people from two different worlds.
Toya dishes more about turning down Love and Hip Hop Atlanta and her marriage to Lil Wayne compared to her current one and much more all on Necole Bitchie’s website, check out the rest of the interview there.
I don’t know about ya’ll but Toya is looking like the definition of a down ass chick, this interview really touched my heart. It’s good to see women sticking by their man no matter what, how many of ya’ll would stick by their significant other like this? We wish them the best! Let’s chat below.
SOURCES SITED: Necole Bitchie
TSR STAFF:
